Lady Sledge: Life in the UK, Immigration Policies, and the Challenges of Relationships
Lady Sledge, a Ghanaian-UK-based resident, is a regular guest on SVTV Africa’s Daily Hustle Worldwide show with DJ Nyaami. She recently shared her insights on immigration, government benefits, financial independence, and the challenges of relationships in the UK.
Lady Sledge revealed that the UK has been quietly deporting undocumented individuals without public announcements, unlike the U.S., where immigration policies are often made public.
“Two weeks ago, a man on his way to work at dawn was arrested and deported to Ghana. Many people don’t realize what’s happening until they fall victim,” she explained.
She warned that people should take immigration matters seriously, ensuring they have the right documentation to avoid unexpected deportations.
Lady Sledge expressed her concerns about how many immigrants in the UK rely on government benefits rather than striving for financial independence.
“Many people don’t read or research. Life abroad can either be very rewarding or extremely difficult, depending on how you approach it. Some people have made it big, while others struggle because they depend too much on the system,” she said.
She observed that while some communities, such as Asians, use government benefits to invest in businesses, many Black immigrants misuse the support system by sending money back home instead of building wealth where they live.
“I’ve never seen anyone on benefits who was able to build a house with it. Some people even manipulate the system—men asking their wives to claim benefits so their rent is fully covered while they secretly work on the side,” she noted.
However, she warned that authorities are cracking down on such cases.
“A friend of mine was on benefits for two years and traveled to Dubai for vacation. They monitored her social media, found out she was living with a man, and later asked her to repay £12,000.”
Lady Sledge discussed how financial struggles and dependency on benefits impact relationships in the UK.
“In Ghana, a man is traditionally expected to be the provider, but here, men often split bills with their wives. Some even push their partners to claim benefits so they can save money. But when financial stress sets in, and the man starts struggling, it affects how the woman sees him,” she explained.
She also pointed out that government housing policies favor women, making it harder for men to secure homes unless they have special circumstances such as disability or same-sex partnerships.
One of the most unexpected points Lady Sledge raised was the impact of the UK’s climate on male sexual performance.
“I’ve been with men in the UK and noticed a pattern. They perform well when they first arrive, but after a couple of years, it’s a different story. The weather, stress, and work pressure weaken them,” she claimed.
She compared her experiences with Ghanaian men, stating,
“When I travel to Ghana, I notice a big difference. The same man who struggled in the UK suddenly performs much better back home.”
Lady Sledge emphasized that life abroad requires strategy, hard work, and proper planning. “You can’t rely on benefits forever. If you don’t have a skill like nursing or medicine, it’s tough to survive. People need to rethink their approach to living in the UK and take control of their financial future.”
She advised young immigrants to focus on securing proper documentation, investing in education, and building sustainable sources of income rather than depending on temporary government assistance.
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